I help
polyamorous folks
& their relationships
thrive
Coaching & somatic healing for individuals, couples & constellations navigating the complexities of non-monogamy.
In Berlin & Worldwide Online
How can I support your journey?
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Individual Coaching
For those navigating their own path, exploring their identity, or seeking clarity on relationship structures.
Whether you are currently single, dating, or in a long-term partnership, this space is dedicated to your personal journey. Together we will navigate the internal shifts that come with non-monogamy from untangling jealousy and shame to building the self-trust needed to create a life that feels truly yours and beyond.
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Couples & Polycules
For couples and constellations looking to build healthy non-monogamous dynamics and foster deep, lasting connection.
Moving from a monogamous script into a polyamorous reality requires a new set of tools. I help couples and polycules create containers of safety and improve relational dynamics, ensuring that every person involved feels heard and valued as you navigate the complexities of multiple connections.
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Somatic Bodywork
Relationships aren't just lived in the mind; they are felt in the body. Somatic coaching teaches you how to feel your feelings (rather than analyzing them), and how to release emotions that have been stuck in your body.
I offer in-person bodywork sessions, informed by the Pantarei Approach, that help you strengthen your mind-body connection. This is a powerful way to ground the talk work of coaching into a lived, physical sense of self and ease.
Hello! I’m Mariana (they/them)
Polyamory Relationship Coach & Somatic Bodyworker
Are you curious, exploring, or already practicing polyamory or another form of non-monogamy?
Whether you are dipping your toes into open relating, opening an existing relationship, are a seasoned polyamorist, a swinger, or a monogamous person seeking to bring more consciousness and communication into your partnership, I am here for you. No topic is too taboo or off-limits.
Polyamorous relationships involve complexity, and I know this firsthand. It helps to have an outside perspective from a certified professional with over 15 years of personal experience in multiple polyamorous relationships.
I offer personalized guidance to help you avoid common pitfalls. In my private space Berlin or online, I provide a private and confidential container for individuals, couples and all types of relationship constellations to thrive.
Professional training blended with 15+ years of lived experience. I provide a path of compassion and curiosity for anyone exploring polyamory, non-monogamy, or conscious monogamy. Together, we work to build healthy, aligned and joyful relationships.
Move from theory to practice
While books and podcasts provide the theory, my work helps you navigate the actual, lived experience of relating non-monogamously or monogamously. I combine structured coaching with somatic support to help you understand your emotions, patterns, and desires as they live in both your thoughts and your nervous system.
For Individuals: Integrated Coaching & Somatics My one-on-one sessions offer a fluid blend of cognitive coaching and somatic integration. We work together to deconstruct the blocks like shame, old narratives, and limiting beliefs, while using the Pantarei Approach to ground those shifts in your body. This ensures your growth isn't just an idea in your head, but a felt sense of confidence and safety in your skin.
For Couples & Constellations: In couples relationship coaching, I serve as a thinking partner. We focus on the practical structure of your relationship: communication tools, clear agreements, boundaries and logical conflict resolution. This approach ensures that every person in the dynamic feels heard, safe, and empowered to build a sustainable path forward.
Together, we move beyond the how-to and into a way of relating that feels grounded, conscious, and joyful.
You were led here, I was too.
I am a queer, polyamorous Mexican-Californian living in Berlin, Germany, and I use they/them pronouns. I have been practicing polyamory for over 15 years, and I have known since my teenage years that I am wired for multiple loving connections. It is how I express love and relate to the world.
After more than a decade and a half of lived experience, I deeply understand the nuanced challenges and emotional landscapes of non-monogamy. Polyamory has been the greatest catalyst for personal growth in my life. It has stretched me, healed me, and taught me more about love, boundaries, and communication than anything else. I would not have it any other way.
In addition to being a relationship coach, I am a Reiki Master Teacher, a somatic bodyworker in the Pantarei Approach, and a practicing shamanic healer. My work weaves together emotional, energetic, and relational support, always held with deep compassion and a trauma-aware lens.
I feel truly honored to walk alongside others who are exploring non-traditional paths in love, intimacy, and self-discovery.